Sociopath: The Eye-opening True Story Everyone's Talking About

An engrossing, “completely fascinating” (Cosmopolitan) memoir revealing the author’s struggle to come to terms with her own sociopathy and shed light on the often maligned and misunderstood mental disorder.

Patric Gagne realized she made others uncomfortable before she started kindergarten. Something about her caused people to react in a way she didn’t understand. She suspected it was because she didn’t feel things the way other people did. Emotions like fear, guilt, and empathy eluded her. For the most part, she felt nothing. And she didn’t like the way that “nothing” felt.

In college, Patric finally confirmed what she’d long suspected. She was a sociopath. But even though it was the very first personality disorder identified—well over 200 years ago—sociopathy had been neglected by mental health professionals for decades. She was told there was no treatment, no hope for a normal life. But when Patric reconnects with an old flame, she gets a glimpse of a future beyond her diagnosis. If she’s capable of love, it must mean that she isn’t a like the madmen and evil villains in pop culture. With the help of her sweetheart (and some curious characters she meets along the way) she embarks on a mission to prove that the millions of Americans who share her diagnosis aren’t all monsters either.

This is the inspiring story of Patric’s journey to unlock the true nature of sociopathy and build a life of love and hope against all odds.

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Published Apr 8, 2025

370 pages

Average rating: 7.35

337 RATINGS

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Readers say *Sociopath: A Memoir* offers a rare, candid look into sociopathy, blending honesty with deep insight. Many praise its thought-provoking pe...

Ilovebooks88
Jan 04, 2026
10/10 stars
Very insightful. I see sociopathy in a whole new light after reading this book.
Kbfollmer
Jan 26, 2025
5/10 stars
I was really interested in the subject matter but quite honestly I was bored to tears reading this one. I put it down and picked it up several times and just never connected with the author at all. I didn't care about her story and I felt like she was so arrogant and privileged. If this wasn't a pick for bookclub I probably wouldn't have finished.
DaRightJuan
Feb 14, 2026
5/10 stars
Good insight on delving into the social antiquities of what a Sociopath actually is. Book made me feel a bit emotional but rather left me dry.
Anne Phillips
Jan 03, 2026
8/10 stars
This was an interesting read. I have also read some of the reaction/think pieces about whether Patric is really a sociopath or not. Obviously I cannot answer that (nor can anyone that is not treating her), but her account was interesting. I liked the notion that this was an emotional learning disability. I could see that. With regards to the critiques – I also know that so many people/society really hates women and always want to poke holes in their arguments (women do this to other women too). But regardless, if we take her word that she's a sociopath, it's obvious that as an attractive, affluent, white woman she had all the privilege in the world and very few barriers to exploring and finding some treatment that allowed her to live a full life. If 1 in 25 people are truly on the ASD spectrum my AND if some of it is nurture, not nature, I would speculate that less than 1% have the safety net to get adequate treatment. If you're poor or POC, forget about it – you're likely to get wrapped up in the prison industrial complex. So many societal problems would disappear if people's basic needs were met instead of billionaires fleecing us all...
IzabelaT
Oct 20, 2025
10/10 stars
What an amazing book. First of all, so well-read. Knowing it's read by the author made me experience it more deeply. It carries so much important information, must read for everyone. The only way to learn about someone is to listen to their stories.

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