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Sociopath: A Memoir

The acclaimed New York Times bestselling memoir of the author’s struggle to understand her own sociopathy and shed light on the often maligned and misunderstood mental disorder.

“A cross between a podcast by relationship therapist Esther Perel and a salacious tell-all.” —San Francisco Chronicle

Patric Gagne realized she made others uncomfortable before she started kindergarten. Something about her caused people to react in a way she didn’t understand. She suspected it was because she didn’t feel things the way other kids did. Emotions like fear, guilt, and empathy eluded her. For the most part, she felt nothing. And she didn’t like the way that “nothing” felt.

She did her best to pretend she was like everyone else, but the constant pressure to conform to a society she knew rejected anyone like her was unbearable. So Patric stole. She lied. She was occasionally violent. She became an expert lock-picker and home-invader. All with the goal of replacing the nothingness with...something.

In college, Patric finally confirmed what she’d long suspected. She was a sociopath. But even though it was the very first personality disorder identified—well over 200 years ago—sociopathy had been neglected by mental health professionals for decades. She was told there was no treatment, no hope for a normal life. She found herself haunted by sociopaths in pop culture, madmen and evil villains who are considered monsters. Her future looked grim.

But when Patric reconnects with an old flame, she gets a glimpse of a future beyond her diagnosis. If she’s capable of love, it must mean that she isn’t a monster. With the help of her sweetheart (and some curious characters she meets along the way) she embarks on a mission to prove that the millions of Americans who share her diagnosis aren’t all monsters either.

This is the inspiring story of her journey to change her fate and how she managed to build a life full of love and hope.

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Published Apr 2, 2024

368 pages

Average rating: 7.35

184 RATINGS

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Kbfollmer
Jan 26, 2025
5/10 stars
I was really interested in the subject matter but quite honestly I was bored to tears reading this one. I put it down and picked it up several times and just never connected with the author at all. I didn't care about her story and I felt like she was so arrogant and privileged. If this wasn't a pick for bookclub I probably wouldn't have finished.
Anne-Marie Eberhardt
Jul 02, 2025
10/10 stars
I have told everyone I’ve encountered about this important book. Not only does it provide insight to sociopathy, it also reminds us that there are all sorts of personality type just because people respond differently, doesn’t make it wrong.
Lauren Greely
Jul 01, 2025
6/10 stars
3.5 ⭐️ interesting perspective. Interesting and incredibly white and privileged perspective.
Denise Mcstev
Mar 06, 2025
5/10 stars
Meh. Interesting to a point but then it was hard to relate to the her.
sumocorpse
Feb 03, 2025
8/10 stars
I personally loved the book. Patric is a good writer and I could vividly picture what she wrote. Not a sociopath but I felt there was instances in the book where I was able to relate. Only a sociopath knows how it’s like to be a sociopath therefore I’m not going to question whether she is or isn’t.

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