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A Woman Is No Man: A Read with Jenna Pick

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A Goodreads Choice Awards Finalist for Best Fiction and Best Debut - BookBrowse's Best Book of the Year - A Marie Claire Best Women's Fiction of the Year - A Real Simple Best Book of the Year - A PopSugar Best Book of the Year All Written By Females - A New York Times Book Review Editors' Choice - A Washington Post 10 Books to Read in March - A Newsweek Best Book of the Summer - A USA Today Best Book of the Week - A Washington Book Review Difficult-To-Put-Down Novel - A Refinery 29 Best Books of the Month - A Buzzfeed News 4 Books We Couldn't Put Down Last Month - A New Arab Best Books by Arab Authors - An Electric Lit 20 Best Debuts of the First Half of 2019 - A The Millions Most Anticipated Books of 2019

"Garnering justified comparisons to Khaled Hosseini's A Thousand Splendid Suns... Etaf Rum's debut novel is a must-read about women mustering up the bravery to follow their inner voice." --Refinery 29

The New York Times bestseller and Read with Jenna TODAY SHOW Book Club pick telling the story of three generations of Palestinian-American women struggling to express their individual desires within the confines of their Arab culture in the wake of shocking intimate violence in their community.

"Where I come from, we've learned to silence ourselves. We've been taught that silence will save us. Where I come from, we keep these stories to ourselves. To tell them to the outside world is unheard of--dangerous, the ultimate shame."

Palestine, 1990. Seventeen-year-old Isra prefers reading books to entertaining the suitors her father has chosen for her. Over the course of a week, the naïve and dreamy girl finds herself quickly betrothed and married, and is soon living in Brooklyn. There Isra struggles to adapt to the expectations of her oppressive mother-in-law Fareeda and strange new husband Adam, a pressure that intensifies as she begins to have children--four daughters instead of the sons Fareeda tells Isra she must bear.

Brooklyn, 2008. Eighteen-year-old Deya, Isra's oldest daughter, must meet with potential husbands at her grandmother Fareeda's insistence, though her only desire is to go to college. Deya can't help but wonder if her options would have been different had her parents survived the car crash that killed them when Deya was only eight. But her grandmother is firm on the matter: the only way to secure a worthy future for Deya is through marriage to the right man.

But fate has a will of its own, and soon Deya will find herself on an unexpected path that leads her to shocking truths about her family--knowledge that will force her to question everything she thought she knew about her parents, the past, and her own future.

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352 pages

Average rating: 7.92

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Anonymous
Jan 27, 2024
10/10 stars
What an incredible book to finish off the year! This was truly so powerfully written and painful to read, especially as someone who relates to some of the central struggles in the novel (feeling pressure from family and culture to get married young), and my heart broke for Isra and healed partway with Deya's resolution breaking the cycle of her foremothers. While it's not necessarily about the occupation and genocide in Palestine, those events do...read more
IronQueen
Jan 19, 2024
10/10 stars
This hit way too close to home. Ezra is close to my age and her major life events happened around my own. There is freedom in breaking the cycle and it takes women to do it. Once I sat on the “male” side of church in an Orthodox country with my husband, whom I later risked my life and my son’s to escape. Did the men say a word? No. It was the women who interrupted the service to physically and painfully drag me to the women’s side. I learned ...read more
Delle Bonner
Dec 02, 2023
I really enjoyed this one. In so many ways I could relate to the women in my own experiences. I was taken back by the ending, it got me. But this was written so well I felt the characters emotions throughout the book. I was rooting for Isra, and Deya from the beginning. That never stopped throughout the book. This one will forever remain on my shelf! It also gave me insight on Arabic Culture and even more sensitive in today’s time, immigration. A...read more
Jaysadilla
Nov 29, 2023
8/10 stars
I wished the ending was different but this book was so deep and gives a inside look of the women in Arabic culture. This should be required reading!
DD86
Nov 06, 2023
8/10 stars
A Woman is No Man was written by a Palestinian-American woman about her experience; however, this novel crosses all cultures. Rum writes of the secrets and shame women carry in some families where both women and men see women as chattels. Women are dangerous with an education especially when the men in the family are not educated. The changing of Islamic meaning to enhance the power of men is a travesty. Throughout the book, as a Palestinian-...read more

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