Summer Romance

The book deals with some heavy themes like grief, divorce, and motherhood. How did Monaghan balance the more serious subject matter with the lighthearted, romantic storyline?

Have you had any similar life experiences to Ali in terms of loss, motherhood, depression or divorce? If so, were you able to connect with what she went through? If not, do you think Monaghan did a good job of explaining her emotional state?

While this book is, as the title states, a romance, what does it have to say about larger themes like womanhood, identity, and finding happiness?

The book explores the complexities and challenges of motherhood. Discuss Ali's relationship with her children and how her parenting (and co-parenting) approach evolves over the course of the story. Can you relate to her struggles with balancing her own needs and desires with her responsibilities as a mom?

Grief and loss are major drivers of Ali's character arc. Discuss how she navigates these emotions, especially in relation to her mother's death. How does this shape her journey of self-discovery?

Ugh, Pete. How does Ali end up in such an unbalanced and emotionally toxic relationship?

One of the key relationships explored in the novel is Ali's complicated dynamic with her mother. Discuss the ways in which her mother's constant involvement and desire to "fix" things in Ali's life impacted Ali's sense of self and her own marriage.

Contrast Ali's relationship with her mother with her relationship with Phyllis. How is Phyllis' attitude different from Ali's mom?

What insights did you gain about aging, loneliness, and the value of intergenerational friendships from the relationship between Ali and Phyllis?

Analyze the significance of the pantry and Ali's messy home as a metaphor for the state of her life.

Ali's journey involves reclaiming her identity and voice after losing herself in her marriage and motherhood. Reflect on specific moments where you saw her becoming more empowered and true to herself.

Ethan's family loves him, yet don't seem to understand him. What underlies their family dynamic?

How do Ethan and Ali help each other grow over the course of the novel? How do they communicate with each other?

Consider the book's ending. Were you satisfied with how Ali and Ethan's story concluded? Did you feel a sense of hope and optimism for their future, or were you left with any lingering concerns or unresolved questions?