My Friends

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What’s it about?

Louisa is turning eighteen and will finally be able to leave foster care. She does not have much in her life except a love of art. When she accidentally meets her favorite artist and his best friend, Ted, a new adventure begins. This book alternates between the present with Louisa’s story and the past, told mainly by Ted.

What did it make me think about?

The power of friendship and the power of art.

Should I read it?

This book is quintessential Fredrik Backman- so if you liked A Man Called Ove, Anxious People, or any of his other books, you will also like this one. I am always amazed by the simplicity of his sentences and the complexity of his themes. He drops thought-worthy ideas throughout his books, “…because that is the worst sort of gossip: the sort that is discussed as concern,” or “Being a parent is so strange, all our children’s pain belongs to us, but so does their joy.”

In this story, the four childhood friends are the anchor for me. I also appreciated the weight of Louisa’s story and the author’s ability to bring it all together at the end.

So, with great admiration, I share that many of his books are just okay for the first 75% of the story. Then, by the time I turn the last page, I am kind of in awe. I am not sure how I feel about that. It makes for an uneven novel for me, but I always admire his talent.

This will be a favorite of book clubs next year. There are so many interesting themes and characters to discuss.

Quote-

“Nothing weighs more than someone else’s belief in you.”

"My Friends" is a beautifully crafted story exploring the intricate and healing power of friendships. The narrative delves into love, loyalty, regret, and redemption themes, presenting characters who feel achingly real—flawed, humorous, and deeply human. Their interactions are filled with humour, tension, and tenderness, making it impossible not to root for them as they face their challenges. Author Fredrik Backman illustrates the quiet heroism of everyday people striving to do their best, even under challenging circumstances. While the story often conveys warmth and hope, it does not shy away from complex topics, including domestic violence. These moments are addressed with empathy and depth, enhancing the overall emotional truth of the story rather than detracting from it. Backman’s prose remains poetic without becoming pretentious, and his insights into the human experience—how we hurt, heal, and forgive—are breathtaking. This book powerfully reminds us of the strength of kindness and the importance of those who support us, especially during our darkest times. "My Friends" is an unforgettable read that resonates long after the last page is turned.

This author is amazing at character development and pulling heartstrings in storylines. This book was no exception. I wouldn't say it was my favourite book from this author but I commend the author's ability to write a unique plot between friendship and relationships that make all outsiders feel seen. From the kids in the painting to the trip between Louisa and Ted with the painting, it is hard to describe what sticks out and what made me enjoy this book so much.

Finished My Friends — the prose is gorgeous and the themes of friendship and longing for home are powerful. But honestly, the pacing dragged in places and I found myself wishing the story would pick up sooner. Still, it left me thinking about the characters long after I closed the book.

Absolutely beautiful writing. Bachman makes profound statements on the connections we crave and treasure, on the destructive power of loneliness and isolation, and in the transformative potential of art.