Don't Forget to Write: A Novel

In 1960, a young woman discovers a freedom she never knew existed in this exhilarating, funny, and emotional novel by the bestselling author of She's Up to No Good.

When Marilyn Kleinman is caught making out with the rabbi's son in front of the whole congregation, her parents ship her off to her great-aunt Ada for the summer. If anyone can save their daughter's reputation, it's Philadelphia's strict premier matchmaker. Either that or Marilyn can kiss college goodbye.

To Marilyn's surprise, Ada's not the humorless septuagenarian her mother described. Not with that platinum-blonde hair, Hermès scarf, and Cadillac convertible. She's sharp, straight-talking, takes her job very seriously, and abides by her own rules...mostly. As the summer unfolds, Ada and Marilyn head for the Jersey shore, where Marilyn helps Ada scope out eligible matches--for anyone but Marilyn, that is.

Because if there's one thing Marilyn's learned from Ada, it's that she doesn't have to settle. With the school year quickly approaching and her father threatening to disinherit her, Marilyn must make her choice for her future: return to the comfortable life she knows or embrace a risky, unknown path on her own.

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Published Sep 1, 2023

334 pages

Average rating: 8.13

325 RATINGS

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Readers say *Don't Forget to Write* is a fun, engaging coming-of-age novel set in the late 1950s and early 1960s, primarily in Philadelphia and the Je...

Larry Burns
Aug 13, 2023
9/10 stars
A lovely story.
Bea Melanie
Jan 17, 2026
8/10 stars
Set in 1960, Don’t Forget to Write follows Marilyn Kleinman after a scandalous encounter with the rabbi’s son threatens her carefully mapped-out future. Sent away for the summer to live with her formidable great-aunt Ada—a legendary Philadelphia matchmaker—Marilyn expects strict supervision and constant judgment. Instead, she finds herself drawn into Ada’s glamorous, sharp-witted world, one that quietly challenges everything Marilyn has been taught to accept. Over the course of a transformative summer filled with trips to the Jersey Shore and behind-the-scenes glimpses into matchmaking, Marilyn begins to come into her own. She learns that independence often grows from missteps, and that lived experience can teach far more than the well-meaning expectations of others. As family pressures mount and the summer comes to an end, Marilyn must decide whether to return to the safety of the life laid out for her or risk choosing a future on her own terms. At its heart, this is a warm and thoughtful coming-of-age story about the unexpected bonds we form and the ways we often misunderstand the people closest to us. As Marilyn uncovers long-held family secrets—particularly about her mother—the novel gently explores themes of identity, autonomy, and self-discovery, while also touching on issues of racism and homophobia. While the plot twists are small and largely predictable, they feel earned and satisfying, reinforcing the novel’s charm. Don’t Forget to Write is a heartfelt, engaging read that celebrates growth, courage, and the quiet power of choosing oneself.
KelSpinski
Jan 09, 2026
8/10 stars
Great book! Fun read. Takes place in late 50s early 60s? in Phila and the Jesery Shore. A young lady gets into trouble and mischief, so her father sends to spend the summer with her Great aunt at the Jersey shore.
Margie Pettersen
Oct 27, 2025
10/10 stars
Loved every minute of it

What a wonderful story. I just couldn’t put it down. The story of Ada and Marilyn will resonate with me for a long time.
barbbullock
Oct 03, 2025
8/10 stars
A fun, light read that made me laugh out loud many times throughout the book. Loved the Jersey Shore and Philadelphia references.

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