A Truce That Is Not Peace

"Revelatory." --New York Times Book Review
"Essential reading. A companion for turbulent times." --Laura van den Berg
"Nothing short of a masterpiece.” --The San Francisco Chronicle

Named a Must-Read Book of the Summer by The Los Angeles Times, People Magazine, and Town & Country

Internationally bestselling author Miriam Toews' memoir of the will to write--a work of disobedient memory, humor, and exquisite craft set against a content-hungry, prose-stuffed society.

“Why do you write?” the organizer of a literary event in Mexico City asks Miriam Toews. Each attempted answer from Toews--all of them unsatisfactory to the organizer--surfaces new layers of grief, guilt, and futility connected to her sister's suicide. She has been keeping up, she realizes, a decades-old internal correspondence, filling a silence she barely understands. And we, her readers, come to see that the question is as impossible to answer as deciding whether to live life as a comedy or a tragedy.

Marking the first time Toews has written her own life in nonfiction, A Truce That Is Not Peace explores the uneasy pact a writer makes with memory. Wildly inventive yet masterfully controlled; slyly casual yet momentous; wrenching and joyful; hilarious and humane--this is Miriam Toews at her dazzling best, remaking her world and inventing an astonishing new literary form to contain it.

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Published Aug 26, 2025

192 pages

Average rating: 6.25

4 RATINGS

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Kenny Bear
Nov 25, 2025
7/10 stars
My book club pick! I think Miriam Toews is a genius and Fight Night is currently my favourite book, with All my Puny Sorrows in my top 5 as well. It pains me to rate this a 3, but rounding up to a 4 would just be due to my bias. In her memoir, she is an expert at intertwining her tragedies with laugh-out-loud humour and heart-wrenching tenderness (as per). It is so very clear that she bases many of her fictional characters on her loved ones, so much so there are times I forgot which book I was reading! Touching, heart-breaking, hilarious, but a bit too fragmented for me. I got used to it as I went on, and it is a very quick read, but had I not already known and loved her, I suspect it would have been difficult to get through. There were parts I really loved, I cried, I laughed, and I will continue to read anything she ever publishes. P.S. would you rather be described as fickle or stalwart? I’m leaning towards fickle, but that could change ;) P.S.S. The men at The Kingshead are STILL nimrods.

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