Women Talking: (Movie Tie-in)

I feel... tired.
it's painful

A small group of women gather to decide what to do after it is revealed that they, along with most other women and girls in their community, have been repeatedly drugged and raped by the men of their small Mennonite colony. Will they forgive the men, stay and fight, or leave the colony? Their discussions range over what it means to have the freedom to choose, whether one can be a pacifist if one harbors a desire a kill, how best to protect one's children, and many more philosophical topics.

It was somewhat jarring that a book that seemed as though it was to be about female empowerment was told from a man's perspective, but it worked. He is privy to the women talking as an amanuensis; none of the women can read or write, but want their deliberations preserved for posterity. He's an outsider in the colony, for reasons that aren't entirely clear, but his outsider status allows the women to trust him for this task, and makes him appropriately sensitive to them, in a way that no other man of their acquaintance could, or would, be.

And perhaps this is a realistic notion of what could happen when such an insulated group of people is threatened in this way. But I found it troubling to read about a group of women facing such a threat to themselves and their children and spending two days sitting in a hayloft debating the finer points of free will, rather than making actual plans. The lack of action in the books gives it a claustrophobic feel, which seems appropriate under the circumstances, and that feeling of clautrophobia helps keep the pressure on throughout the narrative, having the effect of sucking the reader through the story, rather in the manner of a pneumatic tube.

So what will the women decide to do, and will they be able to follow through on that decision? That is what they are talking about, and the question of whether they will be able to sieze their freedom, no matter what they decide, will leave the reader thinking long after the last page.

Very difficult and confusing read.

This got really mixed reviews from our group! Some loved, some hated, and I couldn't get myself to pick it up. Gwyn seems to have persuaded us that it was allegorical and spurred reflection about forgiveness and acceptance. The choice to make the narrator the male secretary was discussed as a necessary evil sue to the women being illiterate and therefore technically unable to communicate the story to outsiders themselves or just a bad choice of narrator. The book is titled Women Talking, and the Women aren't doing the talking!

This book made you think!!! Through the dark devilish behaviors, you see a group of women come together to decide what is best for the group. They debate over long hours and bring up deep contextual psychological and theological debates. You can tell the women are educated enough the way they speak and use their grounds for arguments. They try to balance their emotion minds with logic minds all while keeping the group in mind and faith at the forefront. I loved to watch the different characters develop in the book although at times I wasn't sure who was who and was easily confused. It was an emotional rollercoaster and felt myself cheering on some of the woman's thoughts and arguments especially after I found out it's based on true events. Short read, medium level vocabulary and difficult constructed sentences when the women were talking and debating. I loved the main character telling the story. It balanced out the story from that perspective.