The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny

According to a New York Times interview, it took 20 years for The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny to be completed, as Kiran Desai started writing it after the publication of her last book The Inheritance of Loss which won the Booker Prize in 2006. How do you think the passing of real time has affected the shape and scope of the fictional world within the book?

That same interview suggests that Desai ‘gave Sonia a background much like her own, including a boisterous Delhi family with a beloved household cook who excels at making kebabs.’ And, like Desai, Sonia is a writer who struggles with ‘how to portray her homeland, and worries that if she writes about arranged marriages or magical realism, she’ll be trafficking in cultural clichés.’ How much of the book do you think is autobiographical? Does it affect how you feel about any of the characters?

In an interview with the Booker Prizes website, Desai says that she ‘realised that I could widen the scope of my novel, to write about loneliness in a much broader sense. Not just romantic loneliness, but the huge divides of class and race, the distrust between nations, the swift vanishing of a past world – all of which can be seen as forms of loneliness.’ In what specific instances do you think Desai has portrayed these different forms of loneliness?

At the start of the book, there is a comprehensive family tree that details all the people involved in Sonia and Sunny’s lives, including their pets and household staff. Considering the wide range of characters in the novel, did you think their stories were easy to follow?

Sonia and Sunny both immigrate to the United States from India as young adults to study and work. Does moving away change how they feel about the culture and traditions they grew up with? How does immigration shape their identities and sense of belonging?

While Sonia is in college she starts a relationship with Ilan, an artist who is manipulative and emotionally abusive. When friends wonder why Sonia stays with Ilan despite his horrible behaviour, her response is ‘Because you have to be a person to be able to leave, and hadn’t they noticed that Sonia was no longer a person, that she was made of fear? She could not think any one of her thoughts through.’ Why do you think she believed this? What did you make of the relationship between Sonia and Ilan?

When we first meet Sunny he’s living in Brooklyn with his girlfriend Ulla, whom he met at university. Sunny keeps Ulla a secret from his mother, while at one point Ulla takes Sunny to meet her parents in Kansas but the visit feels awkward and fake. What do you think drew Ulla and Sunny together, and how does their fractious relationship feed into Sunny’s loneliness?

Towards the end of the book, Sonia says, ‘“Why do we try to solve other problems? There is only one that is necessary to solve.” “Loneliness?” “The other problems would melt away in importance.”’ Do you believe this to be true?

The book spans the 1990s and into the 2000s, with both Sonia and Sunny confronting a range of different experiences throughout their lives in that time. Comparing their character arcs from the beginning of the story to the end, how have they both changed?