Where'd You Go, Bernadette: A Novel

Soon to be a major motion picture starring Cate Blanchett. A whip-smart, hysterical dramedy about a family in crisis after the disappearance of its brilliant, misanthropic matriarch. Bernadette Fox is notorious. To her Microsoft-guru husband, she's a fearlessly opinionated partner; to fellow private-school mothers in Seattle, she's a disgrace; to design mavens, she's a revolutionary architect, and to 15-year-old Bee, she is a best friend and, simply, Mom. Where’d You Go Bernadette is a compulsively readable and touching novel about misplaced genius and a mother and daughter's role in an absurd world.

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Published Apr 2, 2013

352 pages

Average rating: 7.19

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Readers say *Where'd You Go, Bernadette* is a clever, fun read with quirky characters and a fresh epistolary style using emails, letters, and texts th...

nfmgirl
Mar 08, 2026
8/10 stars
Bernadette was once a brilliant architect, but some mysterious event caused her to buy an old rundown private school in Seattle and move there with her husband and daughter. With grand plans of restoring the old place into a beautiful home for her family, she has instead become mired in bitterness and weighted with regret and found herself living in a broken and crumbling building. However she is proud of her husband Elgie, although he may not always be clear on just how much he means to his wife, and Bernadette absolutely adores her daughter Bee, who is a truly bright child and charms everyone who knows her. Bernadette just seems to have lost her way a bit.

Elgie is a trailblazer working at Microsoft, but may be best known for a brilliant TED talk that he did. He's reached a point in his life when he begins to doubt his wife and her competency, thinking perhaps she's gone over the edge. Then there is Soo-Lin, his assistant at work, who has begun to express an interest in him and made him feel special, and made him question his wife and his life with her.

At the request of Bee, the family plans a trip to Antarctica, but just as things come to a boil-- just as Bernadette finds herself betrayed by her husband and as it seems that all the world has turned against her-- Bernadette disappears without a trace.

This book is an organized collection of letters, emails and recitations of conversations. It isn't clear until the end just where all of this documentation originated, but it was a very clever way to develop the story. It allows you to build one perspective, and then read an email from someone else, and later get yet a different perspective.

My final word: This was a book club selection, and I did enjoy it. It wasn't a real thrilling or gripping story, but it was clever and fresh and original. It is easy to read, has a cast of colorful characters, and I enjoyed the snippets that came from letters, newspaper articles, emails, etc. The dynamics between Bernadette and the other mothers from school, as well as the emails from “Emily” (the woman in charge of organizing the school functions that the parents are involved in), all made me very happy to not have kids! This is definitely a worthwhile read.
K Olson
Jan 14, 2025
8/10 stars
This book is very tongue in cheek and had me laughing out loud. The ending dragged a bit so that's why I gave it 4 stars instead of 5. A thoroughly enjoyable read.
Khris Sellin
Jul 05, 2024
8/10 stars
A great, fun read to get the summertime reading started! I devoured this book, which hasn't happened in a while.

(Meanwhile, I'm still only 35% of the way through Dragon's Teeth, last month's book club book...)
Dale Wilde
May 12, 2020
November 2019 selection
Mary Pat Holt
Feb 05, 2026
6/10 stars
Definitely quirky and silly. A nice change from what I usually read. Took a bit to get used to the writing-the story unfolds mostly in emails and texts between the characters.

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