What Happened to Ruthy Ramirez

A powerful novel that's "hilarious, heartbreaking, and ass-kicking" (Jamie Ford) about a Puerto Rican family in Staten Island who discovers their long-missing sister is potentially alive and cast on a reality TV show, and sets out to bring her home.
Winner of the 2024 PEN/Faulkner Award for Fiction - Longlisted for the Aspen Words Literary Prize - March Indie Next Pick - Belletrist, Phenomenal, Page & Pairing, and Readers Digest book club pick
The Ramirez women of Staten Island orbit around absence. When thirteen-year-old middle child Ruthy disappeared after track practice without a trace, it left the family scarred and scrambling. One night, twelve years later, oldest sister Jessica spots a woman on her TV screen in Catfight, a raunchy reality show. She rushes to tell her younger sister, Nina: This woman's hair is dyed red, and she calls herself Ruby, but the beauty mark under her left eye is instantly recognizable. Could it be Ruthy, after all this time?
The years since Ruthy's disappearance haven't been easy on the Ramirez family. It's 2008, and their mother, Dolores, still struggles with the loss, Jessica juggles a newborn baby with her hospital job, and Nina, after four successful years at college, has returned home to medical school rejections and is forced to work in the mall folding tiny bedazzled thongs at the lingerie store.
After seeing maybe-Ruthy on their screen, Jessica and Nina hatch a plan to drive to where the show is filmed in search of their long-lost sister. When Dolores catches wind of their scheme, she insists on joining, along with her pot-stirring holy roller best friend, Irene. What follows is a family road trip and reckoning that will force the Ramirez women to finally face the past and look toward a future--with or without Ruthy in it.
What Happened to Ruthy Ramirez is a vivid family portrait, in all its shattered reality, exploring the familial bonds between women and cycles of generational violence, colonialism, race, and silence, replete with snark, resentment, tenderness, and, of course, love.
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I'd give it a solid 4.5--my only issue is the very ending. I appreciated getting small glances into Ruthy's perspective, but I wish the last page had been from Nina or Jess or Dolores' perspective. It was realistic, but I still got my hopes up.
The characters also felt authentic, which I really enjoyed.
Also a gift is being able to see your own life, your culture, your neighborhood so beautifully described and explored in the pages of a book. This doesnโt always happen for me - but reading about Ruthyโs sisters at church, growing up in the east coast, in neighborhoods of mostly Hispanic communities, sharing meals, referencing specific songs and TV shows, etc. It made me feel seen.
Equally beautiful was the content of the story itself. This is a story about a family processing grief; trying to cling to hope, and coming together despite their pain because itโs all they have.
Iโve read a few reviewers say that the explicit language is excessive, so if thatโs bothersome to you - feel free to skip this one. But itโs language I grew up around and I found it oddly comforting. A book I suspect will stay with me in many ways for a very long time.
I recommend this book if you enjoy:
F bombs, familial thrillers, bickering sisters, characters from the East Coast with a lot of attitude.
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