We Must Not Think of Ourselves

From New York Times bestselling author Lauren Grodstein, a story inspired by a little-known piece of the history of the Jewish occupants of the Warsaw Ghetto in World War II. Called a "masterpiece" and chosen as a Today show Read with Jenna book club pick (Madeline Miller).

On a November day in 1940, teacher Adam Paskow becomes a prisoner in the Warsaw Ghetto, where the Jews of the city are cut off from their former lives and held captive by Nazi guards to await an uncertain fate. Weeks later, he is approached by a mysterious figure with a surprising request: Would he join a secret group of archivists working to preserve the truth of what is happening inside the ghetto's walls?

Adam agrees and begins taking testimonies from his students, friends, and neighbors. Their stories form a portrait of endurance in a world where no choices are good ones. One of the people Adam interviews is his flatmate Sala Wiskoff, who is stoic, determined, and funny--and married with two children. Over the months of their confinement, in the presence of her family, they fall in love. As they desperately carve out intimacy, their relationship feels both impossible and vital, their connection keeping them alive. But when Adam discovers a possible escape from the Ghetto, he is faced with an unbearable choice: whom can he save, and at what cost ?

Inspired by the real testimony-gathering project with the code name Oneg Shabbat, and told with immediacy and heart, We Must Not Think of Ourselves is a piercing story of love, determination, and sacrifice.

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Published Oct 29, 2024

320 pages

Average rating: 7.67

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DebraLinn
Jul 28, 2025
10/10 stars
Love this book! Profound and timely with unforgettable characters having to make unimaginable choices to survive. Great writing.
sarcasticgrl
Oct 29, 2025
8/10 stars
This novel is spired by the testimony-gathering project with the code name, Oneg Shabbat. I think it's neat that you can visit the archive in Warsaw to see actual diary entries, sketches, and other paraphernalia collected by the archivists of this project that were buried in giant milk cans before the Warsaw ghetto's distruction in 1942. This book concentrates on the story of Adam Paskow, an english teacher who becomes a prisoner in the Warsaw Ghetto, after his late wife's father manipulates him out of his apartment and into a shared apartment with many other people. He is approached by a mysterious person with an intriguing request, to archive and preserve the stories of the fellow jews in that ghetto. A task of preserving the truth. He interviews a few students as well as housemates and watches in horror as people are shot in the streets, manipulated, and sent away to concentration camps by nazi guards. I loved hearing all of the different stories, i loved the writing style of this author, but hated how much the narrative tied to current events. One quote that truly got to me was towards the end of the book, " as with everything in the ghetto, everything in our lives, we had become used to our new daily horror, and didn't let even the deportations of our friends and neighbors keep us from the rituals of our ridiculous days." This book is for anyone who loves WWII novels and wants to see history from another point of view. Books like this should help us not to repeat history. But alas... here we are. This quick read is worth the time and is important.

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