Truth & Beauty: A Friendship

"A loving testament to the work and reward of the best friendships, the kind where your arms can’t distinguish burden from embrace.” — People

New York Times Bestselling author Ann Patchett’s first work of nonfiction chronicling her decades-long friendship with the critically acclaimed and recently deceased author, Lucy Grealy.

Ann Patchett and the late Lucy Grealy met in college in 1981, and, after enrolling in the Iowa Writer’s Workshop, began a friendship that would be as defining to both of their lives as their work. In Gealy's critically acclaimed and hugely successful memoir, Autobiography of a Face, she wrote about losing part of her jaw to childhood cancer, years of chemotherapy and radiation, and endless reconstructive surgeries. In Truth & Beauty, the story isn't Lucy's life or Ann's life, but the parts of their lives they shared together. This is a portrait of unwavering commitment that spans twenty years, from the long cold winters of the Midwest, to surgical wards, to book parties in New York. Through love, fame, drugs, and despair, this is what it means to be part of two lives that are intertwined...and what happens when one is left behind.

This is a tender, brutal book about loving the person we cannot save. It is about loyalty and being uplifted by the sheer effervescence of someone who knew how to live life to the fullest.

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Published Apr 5, 2005

257 pages

Average rating: 6.74

31 RATINGS

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Tiffany X
Dec 05, 2025
4/10 stars
This is a story about true and raw friendship between two writers. However, the story gets old very quickly. This book is really about Lucy Grealy, Ann's extremely needy best friend.

I could not understand what the 'pull' was with Lucy Grealy. She seemed to have many friends who loved her and would do anything for her. However, the way she treated Ann was sad, dispicable (sp.), and completely unloving yet Anna was uwavering in her love for her in a very self deprecating way.

I really did not enjoy this book.
E Clou
May 10, 2023
8/10 stars
A love letter in book form. Patchett's nearly unconditional love for her friend Lucy Greely is palpable and I fell in love with them too. I don't think I've ever encountered a book conveys the importance and depth of friendship as well as this book does. And there's so much more here as well because both women were/are artists and deep thinkers.

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