They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us: Expanded Edition

When first published in 2017, They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us became an instant cultural sensation, appearing in music videos, B-sides to singles by The National's Matt Berninger and Julien Baker, as an essay prompt on standardized tests, and led critics at NPR to herald Hanif Abdurraqib as "one of the most essential voices of his generation." This expanded paperback edition includes three additional essays by the author and an original afterword by Jason Reynolds.

In an age of confusion, fear, and loss, Hanif Abdurraqib's is a voice that matters. Whether he's attending a Bruce Springsteen concert the day after visiting Michael Brown's grave, or discussing public displays of affection at a Carly Rae Jepsen show, he writes with a poignancy and magnetism that resonates profoundly.

In the wake of the nightclub attacks in Paris, he recalls how he sought refuge as a teenager in music, at shows, and wonders whether the next generation of young Muslims will not be afforded that opportunity now. While discussing the everyday threat to the lives of Black Americans, Abdurraqib recounts the first time he was ordered to the ground by police officers: for attempting to enter his own car.

In essays that have been published by the New York Times, MTV, and Pitchfork, among others--along with original, previously unreleased essays--Abdurraqib uses music and culture as a lens through which to view our world, so that we might better understand ourselves, and in so doing proves himself a bellwether for our times.

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Published Jun 20, 2023

336 pages

Average rating: 7.57

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staceygall
Jun 04, 2025
10/10 stars
I bought this book back in September 2021 after it came recommended to me by a first date. It was thanks to the strength of his endorsement (or partially because I thought he was the one) that I rushed out that weekend to obtain a copy. After a second date, the guy disappeared into the void or wherever someone goes when they decide you're not worth their time or consideration without so much as a goodbye, and the book sat untouched on my shelf.

I'm thankful I finally got to it. This is a book about a lot: music, memories, the Black experience, and so much more in between. But the big theme that stuck out to me was connectedness. Hanif Abdurraqib is a master wordsmith, and I marveled at his skill of intertwining narrative threads without ever leaving one behind.

I laughed, I cried, and I forgave this guy for ghosting me a year and a half ago. Five stars.
livingin.prose
Feb 11, 2025
9/10 stars
Wow I’m so happy I took my time with this. I could’ve sped my way through this book cause I never wanted to put it down but having the time I did to let it sink in really showed me how great the writing is. This has to be one of the realest things I’ve read. Hanif writes about real emotion and I don’t know how else to explain that other than saying I have not read real emotion in a long time. This is so much more than Hanif writing about his life and the impact of certain music. This is about collective and intimately individual emotions and experiences. This was a beautiful impactful collection and will 100% be reading more of his work.
jslee03
Sep 27, 2024
7/10 stars
Says "Believe me" a lot but we're already reading the essays.

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