The Life She Was Given: A Moving and Emotional Saga of Family and Resilient Women

A GREAT GROUP READS Selection of the Women's National Book Association and National Reading Group Month

A GOODREADS Best of the Month Selection

"A powerful, poignant novel."
--In Touch, Grade A


From the internationally bestselling author of The Orphan Collector comes a beautifully written and moving tale of family secrets and the importance of a mother's love--and how it can shape a life--even in the most shocking ways. A painful saga of strength and reinvention perfect for fans of Jojo Moyes and Lisa Wingate--set in two different times, as two young women come of age and uncover the mysteries of their families, and find their own ways in the world...

On a summer evening in 1931, Lilly Blackwood glimpses circus lights from the grimy window of her attic bedroom. Lilly isn't allowed to explore the meadows around Blackwood Manor. She's never even ventured beyond her narrow room. Momma insists it's for Lilly's own protection, that people would be afraid if they saw her. But on this unforgettable night, Lilly is taken outside for the first time--and sold to the circus sideshow.

More than two decades later, nineteen-year-old Julia Blackwood has inherited her parents' estate and horse farm. For Julia, home was an unhappy place full of strict rules and forbidden rooms, and she hopes that returning might erase those painful memories. Instead, she becomes immersed in a mystery involving a hidden attic room and photos of circus scenes featuring a striking young girl.

At first, The Barlow Brothers' Circus is just another prison for Lilly. But in this rag-tag, sometimes brutal world, Lilly discovers strength, friendship, and a rare affinity for animals. Soon, thanks to elephants Pepper and JoJo and their handler, Cole, Lilly is no longer a sideshow spectacle but the circus's biggest attraction...until tragedy and cruelty collide. It will fall to Julia to learn the truth about Lilly's fate and her family's shocking betrayal, and find a way to make Blackwood Manor into a place of healing at last.

Moving between Julia and Lilly's stories, Ellen Marie Wiseman portrays two extraordinary, very different women in a novel that, while tender and heartbreaking, offers moments of joy and indomitable hope.

"Perfect for book clubs and readers who admired Sara Gruen's Like Water for Elephants."
--Library Journal, STARRED REVIEW

"A vibrant maze of desires."
--ForeWord Reviews

"Seamlessly blends mystery and history with compelling and well-researched details."
--The Historical Novels Review

"Vividly drawn and complex...Fans of Karen White and Sara Gruen will be drawn in by the drama and mystery of Wiseman's novel."
--BookPage

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368 pages

Average rating: 7.65

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Anonymous
Jan 14, 2025
8/10 stars
This is my third Ellen Marie Wiseman book and arguably my favorite. Both timelines are equally well written and kept me turning pages. I’d give this 4 1/2 stars-there were a few loose ends that didn’t totally add up. Definitely recommend.
Anonymous
Nov 28, 2023
4/10 stars
I really wanted to like this one - and the story itself was great. Creative, thought-provoking.

Unfortunately, the writing was so hard to look past. It felt... elementary.
It was almost like the author didn't trust us to follow along or understand, so she overexplained everything. Every single chapter started with a reminder of the previous chapter, something like "The day after Julia discovered her (blah blah)" or "The evening after Julia's first day as (blah blah)" and "The morning after (one line summary of previous chapter).

It seemed like the author felt compelled to tell us how to feel about everything, rather than let us empathize with the characters and really get to know them. I couldn't connect to either main character and felt more like an observer of their lives, distanced by the choppy writing style. I wish I had counted the number of times I read something like "Julia's heart hammered in her chest" and "Julia's heartbeat kicked in her throat" and "She gasped" - this one was way overdone.

Anyway - if you're looking for a quick read with an intriguing story line, I'd say go for it. Avoid if you're into more literary fiction and sensitive to this particular writing style. For me personally, the story didn't make up for the writing unfortunately and I found myself skipping entire paragraphs the last 40 pages just to be done with it.

ETA: I just realized the title is a great example of the author's writing style. Rather than leave the title at "The Life She Was Given" she expands it to explain more and basically tell us how to feel (moved and emotional about the "saga" of family and resilient women - which... it's not really, but we've been told it is so...)
Malsy
Nov 14, 2022
9/10 stars
Tragic, heartbreaking, page turner..

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