The 5 Love Languages®: The Secret to Love that Lasts

Name: The 5 Love Languages®: The Secret to Love that Lasts
Rating: 8.04 (191 reviews)
ISBN: 9780802412706

By Gary Chapman

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Falling in love is easy. Staying in love--that's the challenge. How can you keep your relationship fresh and growing amid the demands, conflicts, and just plain boredom of everyday life?

In the #1 New York Times international bestseller The 5 Love Languages(R), you'll discover the secret that has transformed millions of relationships worldwide. Whether your relationship is flourishing or failing, Dr. Gary Chapman's proven approach to showing and receiving love will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your partner--starting today.

The 5 Love Languages(R) is as practical as it is insightful. Updated to reflect the complexities of relationships today, this new edition reveals intrinsic truths and applies relevant, actionable wisdom in ways that work.

Includes the Love Language assessment so you can discover your love language and that of your loved one.

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Published Jun 1, 2024

224 pages

Average rating: 8.04

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Readers say *The 5 Love Languages* offers a quick, accessible framework with practical tips and reflective questions that encourage couples to better ...

theolicksme

Mar 31, 2026

very good. had my brain stimulated.

Steph Boggs

Feb 24, 2026

10/10 stars

This was a very quick read filled with lots of tips and information on how to better your relationship by finding out and speaking your spouses/partners love language. The questions written at the end of each chapter really helped me focus in on the specific needs for myself and my husband in our relationship. I also loved the Christian approach to some of the tips.

I recommend reading this with your spouse and going over the questions together. It brought a new light into my relationship by doing this.

My love language is quality time and physical touch
My husbands love language is words of affirmation and acts of service.

It is always nice to get to know your spouse in ways you may have forgotten about by life being so hectic and busy. Take some time and slow down and read this at your own pace. I promise you wont regret it.

Heva

May 18, 2025

10/10 stars

Such an insightful book. This really helped me first to understand myself and my love language, then to find out my husband's. That information has helped us to invest in each other in a meaningful way, improving our relationship.

Mrs. Awake Taco

Nov 13, 2024

8/10 stars

I really liked this book. It is a simply, forward way of looking at love and relationships. These concepts seem obvious, but apparently they're not. It made wonderful sense to me and I think it'll really help keep my relationship fresh and loving even after the in-love feeling Dr. Chapman talks about wears off. I can't wait for the years of deeper love ahead. Check out my blog review of the book!

http://karen-christina.blogspot.com/2012/02/5-love-languages.html

apridham

Oct 23, 2024

10/10 stars

This is repeated read of mine. Any time I meet a new colleague that I will work closely with or a new friendship I find myself reading this again. It is so important to figure out peoples love languages and just as important to portray your love languages to those people as well.