Stay Sexy & Don't Get Murdered: The Definitive How-To Guide

The instant #1 New York Times and USA Today best seller by Karen Kilgariff and Georgia Hardstark, the voices behind the hit podcast My Favorite Murder now available in paperback. Includes special bonus material!

Sharing never-before-heard stories ranging from their struggles with depression, eating disorders, and addiction, Karen and Georgia irreverently recount their biggest mistakes and deepest fears, reflecting on the formative life events that shaped them into two of the most followed voices in the nation.

In Stay Sexy & Don’t Get Murdered, Karen and Georgia focus on the importance of self-advocating and valuing personal safety over being ‘nice’ or ‘helpful.’ They delve into their own pasts, true crime stories, and beyond to discuss meaningful cultural and societal issues with fierce empathy and unapologetic frankness.

“In many respects, Stay Sexy & Don’t Get Murdered distills the My Favorite Murder podcast into its most essential elements: Georgia and Karen. They lay themselves bare on the page, in all of their neuroses, triumphs, failures, and struggles. From eating disorders to substance abuse and kleptomania to the wonders of therapy, Kilgariff and Hardstark recount their lives with honesty, humor, and compassion, offering their best unqualified life-advice along the way.” —Entertainment Weekly

“Like the podcast, the book offers funny, feminist advice for survival—both in the sense of not getting killed and just, like, getting a job and working through your personal shit so you can pay your bills and have friends.” —Rolling Stone

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320 pages

Average rating: 7.82

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Community Reviews

Anonymous
Sep 01, 2024
10/10 stars
If you listen to the podcast “My Favorite Murder”, you’ve GOT to read this book. Gave more insight into Karen & Georgia’s childhoods and what helped shape them into the badasses they are.
If you don’t listen to the podcast, please go do so!
Anonymous
Mar 23, 2024
8/10 stars
As a huge fan of the MFM podcast, I was really excited for this book as well. Reading it was almost like experiencing the podcast in written form. Each of these women's personalities came off the page for me, and it felt like we were best friends because we as readers learn so much about them and what events made them into the people they are today. I really enjoyed all the different stories about the various parts of their lives and their experiences, and although there were no great revelatory moments, there were some great quotes that I would have highlighted if I were one to mark up a book.

If I had a criticism, it would be that I kind of expected...more? I'm not quite sure how or in what way, and maybe it was just that the book felt fairly short, but I just thought that there could have been more somehow, or for them to go deeper into some of the things that were alluded to, particularly mental health stuff since the book is supposed to be part self-help as well. It felt like they did less of that in this book than they normally do on the podcast. I mean, don't get me wrong, I still enjoyed reading it, I just wanted more from them (as I always do)!

SSDGM! <3
Sara Jean
Feb 01, 2024
8/10 stars
Love the podcast love the book
happeninheidi
Jul 05, 2023
8/10 stars
As a former MFM listener, I was super excited to listen to this book! I have not kept up with the podcast, but I still had high hopes. If you are a fan of My Favorite Murder because you’re interested in learning about different murders, then I don’t think this book is for you. If you’re a fan of MFM Bc you think Karen and Georgia are entertaining, you will love this book. If, like me, you fall somewhere in between the two, you will likely enjoy this book, but be disappointed that it was essentially a memoir, and has little to do with murder. Lol

All in all, I think Karen and Georgia are v entertaining. There were aspects of this book I really enjoyed, but I was kind of bummed by the lack of true crime.
Emorr03
Jun 17, 2022
9/10 stars
Karen and Georgia are two of my heroes. This is a thoughtful, hilarious, and insightful book on how to be the best you and DON'T GET MURDERED!!

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