Snow Flower and the Secret Fan: A Novel

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • OVER ONE MILLION COPIES SOLD • A “haunting, magical, and absolutely impossible to forget” (The Boston Globe) novel about the unique friendship between two women in nineteenth-century China, from the acclaimed author of Shanghai Girls
“A marvel of imagination . . . so mesmerizing the pages float away and the story remains clearly before us from beginning to end.”—Amy Tan, author of The Backyard Bird Chronicles
“[A] marvelous narrative . . . a timeless portrait of a contentious, full-blooded female friendship.”—Entertainment Weekly (Editor’s Choice)
“An achingly beautiful, understated, and absorbing story of love . . . evokes the work of Jane Austen.”—Cleveland Plain Dealer
In nineteenth-century China, in a remote Hunan county, a girl named Lily, at the tender age of seven, is paired with a laotong, or “old same,” in an emotional match that will last a lifetime. The laotong, Snow Flower, introduces herself by sending Lily a silk fan on which she has written a poem in nu shu, a unique language that Chinese women created in order to communicate in secret, away from the influence of men.
As the years pass, Lily and Snow Flower send messages on the fan and compose stories on handkerchiefs, reaching out of isolation to share their hopes, dreams, and accomplishments. They both endure the agony of footbinding and together reflect upon their arranged marriages, shared loneliness, and the joys and tragedies of motherhood. The two find solace, developing a bond that keeps their spirits alive. But when a misunderstanding arises, their deep friendship suddenly threatens to tear apart.
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Readers say *Snow Flower and the Secret Fan* offers a richly detailed, historically grounded portrayal of 19th-century Chinese women’s lives, focusing...
Amazing. Reading this made me feel so profoundly grateful to be a woman in present-day America--big feet and all! The women in this story seem not to have experienced any true happiness at all, only lesser degrees of misery and suffering. I believe they loved deeply but could never fully admit it, even to themselves. That seems to me to be the underlying reason for the grave misunderstanding between Lily and Snow Flower. The women were so bound by convention--literally and figuratively--that they could not speak freely of their true emotions. That is what was most heart-breaking to me. What a fascinating story.
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I loved this book. It was recommended to me by a friend. I had not heard of the book or author and I knew next to nothing about life in China during the 19th century. I became so quickly absorbed into the story of Lily and Snow Flower. I liked the writing style-it definitely kept me wanting to read more. I even found myself looking things up to find out more about life in China during this time. Great book!
"Obey, obey, obey, then do what you want."
Snow Flower and Lily shared a relationship unlike anything I’ve ever seen before—they had a bond that transcended romantic and platonic labels. Their connection felt like a sacred light, something I wanted to protect, to witness, and to believe would keep glowing even after it had been put out. I also appreciate how certain aspects, such as laotong relationships, sworn sisterhoods, and nu shu, transcended, to a degree, the patriarchy by carving out spaces of worth and meaning.
Snow Flower and Lily shared a relationship unlike anything I’ve ever seen before—they had a bond that transcended romantic and platonic labels. Their connection felt like a sacred light, something I wanted to protect, to witness, and to believe would keep glowing even after it had been put out. I also appreciate how certain aspects, such as laotong relationships, sworn sisterhoods, and nu shu, transcended, to a degree, the patriarchy by carving out spaces of worth and meaning.
I liked this book a lot. I fell in love with the two main characters, despite feeling worlds away from them and not understanding why they did some things. This was full of chinese history, which I loved learning about. I felt like it was a very dark story, though - I never got a good feeling from it and there was this constant sense of foreboding.
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