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Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory

Armed with a degree in medieval history and a flair for the macabre, Caitlin Doughty took a job at a crematory and turned morbid curiosity into her life's work. She cared for bodies of every color, shape, and affliction, and became an intrepid explorer in the world of the dead. In this best-selling memoir, brimming with gallows humor and vivid characters, she marvels at the gruesome history of undertaking and relates her unique coming-of-age story with bold curiosity and mordant wit. By turns hilarious, dark, and uplifting, Smoke Gets in Your Eyes reveals how the fear of dying warps our society and "will make you reconsider how our culture treats the dead" (San Francisco Chronicle).

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Published Sep 28, 2015

288 pages

Average rating: 8.01

220 RATINGS

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Community Reviews

GraceBayGirl
Aug 07, 2025
8/10 stars
Culture of death

This gives you a peek inside a crematory but the author sprinkles in some history on the human relationship with our own mortality, the rituals supporting those and the evolution to where we are now. It has just enough ick factor to keep you entertained but I feel like i learned a lot and I wasn’t expecting that. Growing up with a dad who worked part time at a funeral home (and babysitting myself amongst the caskets and next to the embalming room while he worked a wake above) I hang on to an interest in where we go and what happens to us when we die. For me knowledge is power, and knowing the details however grotesque actually helps me not fear the inevitable end.
jimbat.628
Feb 11, 2025
7/10 stars
Weirdly made me want to work in a crematory even though I know I could not handle it.
RemainsLady
Nov 29, 2024
9/10 stars
This was such an enjoyable read I finished it in one day. Caitlin Doughty’s writing style is both insightful and hilarious. A fascinating look into working in the death-industry.
KBenoit
May 17, 2024
10/10 stars
This book was great!
yenjii
Jan 25, 2024
8/10 stars
A memorable insight into the life, thoughts and experiences of a crematory operator, written in an engaging, informative and thoughtful way.

Doughty's field of expertise and death in general is something that I've never really considered (perhaps it's more accurate to say, as the author calls us out for, something that I don't LIKE to think about), but Smoke Gets In Your Eyes had me ruminating my own mortality and other's, and the impacts of the cultures surrounding death. I feel a little easier thinking about death now, and this book gave me a sense of closure on the recent deaths of loved ones that I didn't know I needed.

Highly interesting, and not at all what I thought I would be reading towards the end of the year.

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