Paris: The Memoir

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From the woman who is credited for launching what we know as the celebrity focused, “brand” driven, social media obsessed popular culture of today, comes an honest and surprising memoir that reckons with that truth, and shows that there is so much more to Paris Hilton than you might believe.

I was born in New York City on February 17, 1981, three days after Valentine’s Day. 

From the time I was a toddler, my brain skipped and flickered with the chemical imbalance of ADHD. Sometimes it was too much.

I’m not bragging or complaining about it, just telling you: This is my brain. It has a lot to do with how this whole book thing is going to play out, because I love run-on sentences—and dashes. And sentence fragments. I’m probably going to jump around a lot while I tell the story.

I came of age during the most turbulent pop culture period ever.

The character I played—part Lucy, part Marilyn—was my steel-plated armor.

People loved her. Or they loved to hate her, which was just as marketable. I leaned into that character, my ticket to financial freedom and a safe place to hide. I made sure I never had a quiet moment to figure out who I was without her. I was afraid of that moment because I didn’t know what I’d find.

I wrote this book in an effort to understand my place in a watershed moment: the technology renaissance, the age of influencers. I also wrote this book so that the world could know who I am today. I focused on key aspects of my life that led to what I am most proud of--how my power was taken away from me and how I took it back, how I built a thriving business, a marriage and a family.

There are so many young women who need to hear this story. I don’t want them to learn from my mistakes; I want them to stop hating themselves for their own mistakes. I want them to laugh and cry and embrace every aspect of who they are with fearlessness and pride. We all have our own brand of intelligence, and, girl, fuck fitting in.

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Published Mar 14, 2023

368 pages

Average rating: 8.17

167 RATINGS

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Readers say *Paris: The Memoir* reveals a side of Paris Hilton beyond the public persona, spotlighting her strength, resilience, and advocacy born fro...

Ava Robbins
Sep 14, 2025
10/10 stars
Paris has been through some truly horrific experiences and she writes about them in such a raw and honest way. I had never heard of the troubled teen industry before this book, and I was SHOCKED to hear about how demoralizing and vile it is! For Paris to be on the other side of it all with compassion and forgiveness towards her parents for continuing to put her in that situation is an amount of inner strength that is truly immeasurable!

A portion of this book is dedicated to Paris's glamorous lifestyle as an influencer. She talks about fashion, her reality tv show, Coachella, the Kardashians, parties with multiple outfit changes, etc. High society living makes up an important part of Paris's story and identity, but it was also something that did not align with my personal tastes. Listening to this on audiobook solidified my stance as a physical book girlie because I'd like to reserve my right to skim over parts I know I am not going to enjoy.

Overall, I loved Paris's vulnerability when writing about all of the hardships she's been through. Everything she has had to endure is enough to send me into a spiral about the state of our society, but with the way this is written, I come away from this story with Paris's messages of empowerment and healing at the forefront. 4.5 stars
Anna Shields
Jul 29, 2025
10/10 stars
My heart absolutely breaks for Paris. This is a TOUGH listen. Incredibly beautiful, especially hearing her story in her own voice.
@thekimlewis
Jun 25, 2025
10/10 stars
Did the audiobook! Was very good.
jess.withbooks
Jun 05, 2025
10/10 stars
Oh my god this memoir!!! So inspired by Paris sharing her experiences & taking control of her own narrative. Reading this meant so much to me.
Denise Mcstev
Mar 06, 2025
8/10 stars
Wow! This book was recommended to me and it really surprised me. I never really cared about Paris Hilton but she went through some things that were unbelievable. Now I root for her.

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