My Dearest Dietrich: A Novel of Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s Lost Love

A staggering love illuminating the dark corners of a Nazi prison

Renowned German pastor and theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer is famous for his resistance to the Nazi regime and for his allegiance to God over government. But what few realize is that the last years of his life also held a love story that rivals any romance novel.

Maria von Wedemeyer knows the realities of war. Her beloved father and brother have both been killed on the battlefield. The last thing this spirited young woman needs is to fall for a man under constant surveillance by the Gestapo. How can she give another piece of her heart to a man so likely to share the same final fate? Yet when Dietrich Bonhoeffer, an old family friend, comes to comfort the von Wedemeyers after their losses, she discovers that love isn't always logical.

Dietrich himself has determined to keep his distance from romantic attachments. There is too much work to be done for God, and his involvement in the conspiracy is far too important. But when he encounters a woman whose intelligence and conviction match his own, he's unprepared for how easy it is to give away his heart.

With their deep love comes risk--and neither Dietrich nor Maria is prepared for just how great that risk soon becomes.

Based on detailed historical research, this true love story is at once beautiful and heartrending. My Dearest Dietrich sheds new light on a world-famous theologian . . . and the woman who changed his life.

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360 pages

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jenlynerickson
Jan 21, 2025
10/10 stars
“Many world leaders, pastors, and individuals have been impacted by the legacy of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, but few know of Maria von Wedemeyer–the love of his life and the fiancee whose letters and visits infused hope into the long months of imprisonment. As well as being a theologian, Dietrich Bonhoeffer was also a man…The world knew Dietrich Bonhoeffer. But they did not know him as she had. No one else did. Together, they had shared the most earthly and the most ethereal of emotions. Love.” Love “is a growing seed. It may lie longer and deeper in the soil and need more time to develop into visible beauty, but it will be the stronger and more lasting…Love was like a cord of rope, or the thread in her hands. It wasn’t until that cord was pulled tight and tested that its strength became known. She’d entered into her engagement…without having tested the cord binding them together. Now, she must learn the strength with which it had been wrought.” “War engulfed the world.” Women sacrificed their men on the battlefield, families lost homes in the bombing raids battering Berlin, “railcars stuffed with humanity shipped away never to return. It was an inferno. One none of them could escape. Only endure…The fate of the Jews who still remained alive. The future of Germany. Their own destiny:” All hinge on a conspiracy for the delivery of a bomb to Hitler’s proximity. “The entire fabric of the conspiracy depended upon each playing their part and remaining steadfast under interrogation.” “No longer was she the innocent girl who’d first stirred his heart…an innocent bystander in this thing some called conspiracy, others resistance. By linking herself with Dietrich, she’d become entangled. Involved.” A resistance woman, brave and capable. Amanda Barratt’s My Dearest Dietrich is about an extraordinary engagement to an extraordinary man in extraordinary times. It’s a tale of courage and cowardice, about “the willingness to act, the bearing of responsibility. Above all, the acceptance of consequences. Whenever and however they came.”
Anonymous
Jul 18, 2023
6/10 stars
It was really hard to get to in the beginning but the more I read it got better. It got me on the edge of my seat at times wanting to know what is going to happen and was just interesting to go back in that perspective then what I am used to reading in that time era.

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