Join a book club that is reading Mr Loverman!

Loc'd & Lit

Aight, so boom! What happens when you bring together two millennial women with locs who also share a love of books, cocktails, and great conversation? You get the Loc’d & Lit book club!


This club was created by two life-long friends, Alanna and Trish, who are in the beginning stages of their loc journey and who also share a mutual love of all things books! We hope to build a community of fellow readers where we can share our voices and opinions as they are not always heard or highlighted in the current mainstream book-sphere. So join us monthly as we discuss our latest read and touch upon all themes relevant to women today, whether it be: relationships, parenting, career, race, or life’s constant twists and turns. We hope to explore it all as we talk about the ways that we are inspired and grow though our favorite books. 

 

So may our locs thrive, our cocktails quench, and our pages turn - Its Loc’d & Lit!! (bookclub).

Mr Loverman

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320 pages

Average rating: 6.75

4 RATINGS

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Community Reviews

hershyv
Jun 24, 2025
9/10 stars
I found Mr. Loverman to be an uproariously funny and deeply moving exploration of love, identity, and the courage to live authentically. Barry, the central figure, is a charming and complex man whose life is shaped by the burdens of cultural expectations and his reluctance to face his vulnerabilities. His adherence to gender norms and his inability to empathize with his inner struggles create a gap between him and those he cares about, especially his wife, Carmel. In this vein, much of Carmel’s life also poignantly shows how deeply rooted religious and patriarchal beliefs can shape a person’s identity and sense of worth. Trapped in a long, loveless marriage, Carmel carries the burden of societal expectations while internalizing the pain of her husband's betrayal and the limits placed on her dreams. Her misguided beliefs caused her to suffer in silence. It was fulfilling to see her finally start to reclaim her individuality, and although her story is one of heartbreak, it is also inspiring, demonstrating her resilience and the power of self-discovery. Overall, this is a story of growth and redemption. As Barry begins to face his fears and acknowledge the damage he's caused, he finds a way to accept his true self. This change is as painful as it is freeing, helping him to make peace with his past and open the door to a more honest and satisfying future. I found the relationship between Barry and Morris is the heart of the novel—a love story that is both angsty and uplifting. Their bond, forbidden and secret for nearly six decades, shows the enduring power of love against societal constraints. Evaristo tackles themes of aging, cultural identity, and the constraints of traditional marriage with wit, humor, and authenticity, skillfully balancing the funny with the heartbreaking. Mr. Loverman made me laugh, cry, and think, celebrating the messy, beautiful complexity of love, identity, and human connection.

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