Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns)

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER •  In this hilarious instant classic, the creator of The Mindy Project and Never Have I Ever invites readers on a tour of her life and her unscientific observations on romance, friendship, and Hollywood.

“[Kaling is] like Tina Fey’s cool little sister. Or perhaps . . . the next Nora Ephron.”—The New York Times

 
Mindy Kaling has lived many lives: the obedient child of immigrant professionals, a timid chubster afraid of her own bike, a Ben Affleck–impersonating Off-Broadway performer and playwright, and, finally, a comedy writer and actress prone to starting fights with her friends and coworkers with the sentence “Can I just say one last thing about this, and then I swear I’ll shut up about it?” 
 
Perhaps you want to know what Mindy thinks makes a great best friend (someone who will fill your prescription in the middle of the night), or what makes a great guy (one who is aware of all elderly people in any room at any time and acts accordingly), or what is the perfect amount of fame (so famous you can never get convicted of murder in a court of law), or how to maintain a trim figure (you will not find that information in these pages). If so, you’ve come to the right book, mostly!
 
With several conveniently placed stopping points for you to run errands and make phone calls, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? proves that Mindy Kaling really is just a Girl Next Door—not so much literally anywhere in the continental United States, but definitely if you live in India or Sri Lanka.
 
Praise for Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?

“Where have you been all our lives, Mindy?”Glamour

“Who wouldn’t want to hang out with Mindy Kaling? . . . [Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?] is like a mash note to comedy nerds.”Time Out New York

“Very funny.”Boston Globe

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Published Sep 18, 2012

242 pages

Average rating: 7.47

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Anonymous
Apr 29, 2025
8/10 stars
A very light and entertaining read. Mindy is charming and relatable and this book is a cute little reflection on her life.
Life By Trail and Error
Apr 04, 2025
10/10 stars
I wasn't sure if I would like this book but gave it a shot. I really enjoyed it. The writing is playful and I love her reality.
mandy6488
Mar 30, 2025
10/10 stars
I loved this book. I think Mindy Kaling is adorable and love her take on life. I wish there had been a bit more talk about The Office, but that's just because I'm an Office nerd myself. Can't wait to read more from her!
stackedlibrarian
Dec 11, 2024
6/10 stars
2.5
Shahna
Jul 18, 2024
10/10 stars
I like Mindy a bunch. I want to be her friend. She's neato.

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