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I Who Have Never Known Men

Ursula K. LeGuin meets The Road in a post-apocalyptic modern classic of female friendship and intimacy.

Deep underground, thirty-nine women live imprisoned in a cage. Watched over by guards, the women have no memory of how they got there, no notion of time, and only a vague recollection of their lives before.

As the burn of electric light merges day into night and numberless years pass, a young girl--the fortieth prisoner--sits alone and outcast in the corner. Soon she will show herself to be the key to the others' escape and survival in the strange world that awaits them above ground.

Jacqueline Harpman was born in Etterbeek, Belgium, in 1929, and fled to Casablanca with her family during WWII. Informed by her background as a psychoanalyst and her youth in exile, I Who Have Never Known Men is a haunting, heartbreaking post-apocalyptic novel of female friendship and intimacy, and the lengths people will go to maintain their humanity in the face of devastation. Back in print for the first time since 1997, Harpman's modern classic is an important addition to the growing canon of feminist speculative literature.

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Published May 10, 2022

208 pages

Average rating: 7.48

1,264 RATINGS

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Readers say *I Who Have Never Known Men* is a haunting, beautifully written novel that deeply explores themes of identity, humanity, and isolation. Ma...

jess.withbooks
Jun 05, 2025
8/10 stars
“My memory begins with anger.”
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What does it mean to be human in a world where you’ve been deprived of what connects us most to humanity? In “I Who Have Never Known Men”, an unnamed narrator walks alongside this question as she emerges from the underground prison in which she has spent her entire life.

I was largely inspired by social media to read this book, and I’m glad that I did—it inspired many thoughts and questions that I’m still grappling with. I did enjoy the earlier chapters (which reminded me on “Piranesi”) more than the latter part of the narrative, but overall this will be a book I won’t soon forget.
sweetlemoneade
May 18, 2025
9/10 stars
Amazing. Everyone should read this book, it is so profound and incredible. You’ll feel every emotion reading this book. Wonderful. Wonderful. Wonderful.
Elle11
Oct 26, 2025
9/10 stars
Really stuck with me, great piece of feminist science fiction
DRamz
Oct 24, 2025
8/10 stars
I Who Have Never Known Men is a thought-provoking and quietly haunting novel that stayed with me lafter I finished it. Though short and quick to read, it leaves a deep impression through its stark, unique story and unsettling vision of isolation and survival. The book’s simplicity is part of its power. With an almost dreamlike atmosphere, it raises big questions about humanity, freedom, and what it means to live without a past or future. It’s unlike anything I’ve read before, both unsettling and strangely beautiful. This is a novel that lingers in the mind, encouraging reflection long after the final page. If you’re looking for something original and affecting, this is well worth your time.
Jessi
Oct 08, 2025
10/10 stars
Eerie and dystopian and bleak. 10/10

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