I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter: A Time magazine pick for Best YA of All Time

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - A "stunning" (America Ferrera) YA novel about a teenager coming to terms with losing her sister and finding herself amid the pressures, expectations, and stereotypes of growing up in a Mexican American home.

"Alive and crackling--a gritty tale wrapped in a page-turner. "--The New York Times

Perfect Mexican daughters do not go away to college. And they do not move out of their parents' house after high school graduation. Perfect Mexican daughters never abandon their family.

But Julia is not your perfect Mexican daughter. That was Olga's role.

Then a tragic accident on the busiest street in Chicago leaves Olga dead and Julia left behind to reassemble the shattered pieces of her family. And no one seems to acknowledge that Julia is broken, too. Instead, her mother seems to channel her grief into pointing out every possible way Julia has failed.

But it's not long before Julia discovers that Olga might not have been as perfect as everyone thought. With the help of her best friend Lorena, and her first love, first everything boyfriend Connor, Julia is determined to find out. Was Olga really what she seemed? Or was there more to her sister's story? And either way, how can Julia even attempt to live up to a seemingly impossible ideal?
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Average rating: 7.47

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MaryHav
Mar 26, 2024
10/10 stars
I’ve been wanting to read this for awhile, ever since we added it to our library. I thought it would help me to understand Hispanic culture a bit better, especially daughters of immigrants. While this is just one story, others have told me there are very similar elements of their story in this book. I used Sánchez’s Lessons on Expulsion poetry collection for my poetry analysis project in my poetry class. This poetry collection came before the nov...read more
Paolas_shelf
Apr 10, 2023
8/10 stars
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I have mixed feelings about this one. I wanted to love this book because of the idea of it. With that being said, I didn’t hate it nor love it. It was definitely a book I don’t regret reading, and overall a good read. At first I thought I was never going to like Julia. Then I had I to remind myself she’s a teenager. Her attitude, comments, and way of looking at life is no different than how I w...read more
LaMeraMera.Mom
Dec 08, 2022
8/10 stars
I listened to the audiobook version of this, and I wish I would have read it myself. Only because I feel like the narrator created voices that were different than the characters would have sounded in my head. Overall, a great read with many questions left at each chapter - good ones!
Pretty flower
Aug 25, 2022
10/10 stars
I recommend to every young women especially Latina women who were/are raised in the Mexican culture.
thebooknerd
Mar 26, 2022
9/10 stars
This book is so relatable, to the Latinas out here, read this book. You can connect with the character and her story.

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