Bittersweet (Oprah's Book Club): How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole

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#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - OPRAH'S BOOK CLUB PICK - The author of the bestselling phenomenon Quiet explores the power of the bittersweet personality, revealing a misunderstood side of mental health and creativity while offering a roadmap to facing heartbreak in order to live life to the fullest.

"Bittersweet has the power to transform the way you see your life and the world."--OPRAH
"Grabs you by the heart and doesn't let go."--BRENÉ BROWN, author of Atlas of the Heart

"Susan Cain has described and validated my existence once again!"--GLENNON DOYLE, author of Untamed
"The perfect cure for toxic positivity."--ADAM GRANT, author of Think Again

LONGLISTED FOR THE PORCHLIGHT BUSINESS BOOK AWARD - ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: The Wall Street Journal, Mashable

Bittersweetness is a tendency to states of long­ing, poignancy, and sorrow; an acute aware­ness of passing time; and a curiously piercing joy at the beauty of the world. It recognizes that light and dark, birth and death--bitter and sweet--are forever paired.

If you've ever wondered why you like sad music . . .
If you find comfort or inspiration in a rainy day . . .
If you react intensely to music, art, nature, and beauty . . .

Then you probably identify with the bitter­sweet state of mind.

With Quiet, Susan Cain urged our society to cultivate space for the undervalued, indispensable introverts among us, thereby revealing an un­tapped power hidden in plain sight. Now she em­ploys the same mix of research, storytelling, and memoir to explore why we experience sorrow and longing, and how embracing the bittersweetness at the heart of life is the true path to creativity, con­nection, and transcendence.

Cain shows how a bittersweet state of mind is the quiet force that helps us transcend our personal and collective pain, whether from a death or breakup, addiction or illness. If we don't acknowledge our own heartache, she says, we can end up inflicting it on others via abuse, domination, or neglect. But if we realize that all humans know--or will know--loss and suffering, we can turn toward one another.

At a time of profound discord and personal anxiety, Bittersweet brings us together in deep and unexpected ways.
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Frankie3232
Dec 10, 2023
9/10 stars
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book and have learned much about seeing sorrow as beautiful and not always negative.
AttorneyStella
Mar 22, 2023
6/10 stars
just ok
CazzaT
Sep 23, 2022
9/10 stars
I recommend this book to anyone who has ever experienced sorrow and/or longing...in other words, everyone. I read this book during a very difficult time and it has helped me to understand myself better and profoundly affected my outlook on the source of my pain. I found this book just at the right time and I encourage anyone who is looking to examine how they process grief and engage with the world to read this book!
DesignsByMeghen
Jul 01, 2022
9/10 stars
This book pulled me in right from the beginning with a couple profound and insightful thoughts. Instantly hooked! I really like the flow of the narrative. This is a unique way to think about life and explains why I love sad music. I’m definitely a bittersweet person. It doesn’t take much to bring a tear to my eye.

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