Ask Not: The Kennedys and the Women They Destroyed

INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER #1 SUNDAY TIMES (UK) BESTSELLER 2025 Housatonic Book Award Finalist

"The must-read book of the summer" (Megyn Kelly) from New York Times bestseller Maureen Callahan: a "harrowing, incendiary" exposé of the real Kennedy Curse--the family's generations-long legacy of misogyny, murder, and mayhem (Karen Abbott).

The Kennedy name has long been synonymous with wealth, power, glamor, and--above all else--integrity. But this carefully constructed veneer hides a dark truth: the pattern of Kennedy men physically and psychologically abusing women and girls, leaving a trail of ruin and death in each generation's wake. Through decades of scandal after scandal--from sexual assaults to reputational slander, suicides to manslaughter--the family and their defenders have kept the Kennedy brand intact. Now, in Ask Not, bestselling author and journalist Maureen Callahan reveals the Kennedys' hidden history of violence and exploitation, laying bare their unrepentant sexism and rampant depravity while also restoring these women and girls to their rightful place at the center of the dynasty's story: from Jacqueline Onassis and Marilyn Monroe to Carolyn Bessette, Martha Moxley, Mary Jo Kopechne, Rosemary Kennedy, and many others whose names aren't nearly as well known but should be.

Drawing on years of explosive reportage and written in electric prose, Ask Not is a long-overdue reckoning with this fabled family and a consequential part of American history that is still very much with us. At long last, Callahan redirects the spotlight to the women in the Kennedys' orbit, paying homage to those who freed themselves and giving voice to those who, through no fault of their own, could not.

One of Town & Country's Must-Read Books of Summer 2024

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Published Jul 2, 2024

400 pages

Average rating: 7.35

103 RATINGS

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Community Reviews

AngieK
May 23, 2026
10/10 stars
Great book - hard to put down
SB83
Sep 13, 2025
4/10 stars
I listened to this as an audiobook. My low review is not due to the information given but how it was given. The book format is poor. The order of events/women in the book does not have a clear reason. The hardest part for me was how blatantly biased the author is against the Kennedy’s. I struggled to know if I was reading the author’s thoughts or one of the women. The information given is shocking enough that no bias is needed.
thosehipereads
Jun 25, 2025
4/10 stars
It's listed as a nonfiction book, but in the beginning, we see Callahan say that she took "creative liberties" with some of the stories she talks about. Some of them read like fiction and very slow ones at that.

I wanted so badly to like this more than I did. Callahan jumped back and forth in time, and I started to lose track as to who was married to who and which kids belonged to which couple. While I think these stories are important to tell, with the creative liberties taken, it's hard to tell what is fact and what is fiction.
AngelaM
Jun 20, 2025
7/10 stars
Written more as a gossip piece than factual information. Would have preferred a family tree or better layout of relatives - perhaps chronologically written?
Kirsty cowie
Jun 18, 2025
Gold

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