Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

“Harvey offers surprising insights into the male mentality and gives women strategies for taming that unruly beast.”
Philadelphia Inquirer

“Women should listen to Steve Harvey when it comes to what a good man is about. Steve Harvey dispenses a lot of fabulous information about men.”
—Aretha Franklin

The #1 New York Times bestseller from the new guru of relationship advice, Steve Harvey’s Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man is an invaluable self-help book that can empower women everywhere to take control of their relationships. The host of a top-rated radio show listened to by millions daily—and of cable TV’s The Steve Harvey Project—Harvey knows what men really think about love, intimacy, and commitment. In Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man, the author, media personality, and stand-up comedian gets serious, sharing his wealth of knowledge, insight, and no-nonsense advice for every good woman who wants to find a good man or make her current love last.

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Published Jan 27, 2009

232 pages

Average rating: 7.88

8 RATINGS

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Community Reviews

Nayri
Oct 07, 2025
Gotta make a TikTok about this one
Tnc bookclub
Dec 19, 2024
8/10 stars
This book is the first playbook that levelled the play field for many women some 10+ years ago. I remember being 12 and finding interest in it and back then I read without understanding but I got realise that the most part of it prepared me for in some way I got to grasp how men love and the most amazing part of it I came from a home where my father provided my mom with these 4 ps but it also revealed to me the kind of woman I would like to see myself as to my partner I’ve gotten away from players, minimised dating for long period of times and most importantly it has helped me to navigate through my alpha character in my adult dating life. With the help of this book I’ve figured out my stands, even though I am a bit short on 90 days rule I do try to practice the rule as often as I can which has been helpful I understand my purpose of dating and fully understand that it’s okay for women to be selfish and for their man to step up for them as they require them to I am not afraid of starting or speaking loudly about seeking marriage I hope you guys have a fun read and draw some learning from it 🙏
Angym
Dec 19, 2024
10/10

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