We All Want Impossible Things: A Novel

Look for Wreck, the new novel by Catherine Newman—a deeply moving story of laughter and heart, about marriage, family, and what happens when life doesn’t go as planned—Coming October 2025. 

“Catherine Newman sees the heartbreak and comedy of life with wisdom and unflinching compassion. The way she finds the extraordinary in the everyday is nothing short of poetry. She’s a writer’s writer—and a human’s human.”—New York Times bestselling author Katherine Center

“A riotously funny and fiercely loyal love letter to female friendship. The story of Edi and Ash proves that a best friend is a gift from the gods. Newman turns her prodigious talents toward finding joy even in the friendship’s final days. I laughed while crying, and was left revived. Newman is a comic masterhand and a dazzling philosopher of the day-to-day.”—Amity Gaige, author of Sea Wife

“The funniest, most joyful book about dying—and living—that I have ever read.”—KJ Dell'Antonia, author of the New York Times bestselling The Chicken Sisters

For lovers of Meg Wolitzer, Maria Semple, and Jenny Offill comes this raucous, poignant celebration of life, love, and friendship at its imperfect and radiant best. 

Edith and Ashley have been best friends for over forty-two years. They’ve shared the mundane and the momentous together: trick or treating and binge drinking; Gilligan’s Island reruns and REM concerts; hickeys and heartbreak; surprise Scottish wakes; marriages, infertility, and children. As Ash says, “Edi’s memory is like the back-up hard drive for mine.” 

But now the unthinkable has happened. Edi is dying of ovarian cancer and spending her last days at a hospice near Ash, who stumbles into heartbreak surrounded by her daughters, ex(ish) husband, dear friends, a poorly chosen lover (or two), and a rotating cast of beautifully, fleetingly human hospice characters.

As The Fiddler on the Roof soundtrack blasts all day long from the room next door, Edi and Ash reminisce, hold on, and try to let go. Meanwhile, Ash struggles with being an imperfect friend, wife, and parent—with life, in other words, distilled to its heartbreaking, joyful, and comedic essence.

For anyone who’s ever lost a friend or had one. Get ready to laugh through your tears.

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224 pages

Average rating: 7.27

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LarissaLipani
Nov 11, 2024
7/10 stars
I didn’t think it was possible to laugh more than I cried whilst reading a book in which a main character is dying of cancer. But here we are. Beautiful, relatable, raw, and real. Catherine Newman reminds us that none of us is normal… thank God.
Mahak Nyati
Sep 02, 2024
8/10 stars
" How can it be that we are having coffee and toast when we are simultaneously losing everything? " - one of my favorite line from the book which made me think that It's interesting and sad that how life relentlessly continues even when the world feels like it's crumbling around you. The grief of loosing someone you love is the grief that you live with all your life.
brittshank91
Mar 25, 2024
10/10 stars
This book was nothing I expected and get everything I needed. It spoke of sitting with someone who is dying and doing it in a way that brings truth and reality to the situation. It brought light to the ways in which we all deal with loss - whatever that loss may look like - and also how we begin to evolve and heal after the literal loss takes place.
Jules Sweetpea
Dec 17, 2022
3/10 stars
All over the place. Why would the wife of a hedge fund manager and mother of a 7-year-old agree to leave them behind to hang out with a childhood friend in a far-away town for hospice care? It was such an unrealistic basis for the novel. The friend then hooks up with the hospice physician, the substitute teacher from her daughter’s school, the dying friend’s brother…it’s a ridiculous and indulgent waste of the author’s time. Nothing rings true in this novel. There are some wonderfully descriptive phrases and good dialogue exchange between characters at some points, but I could not get to the end quickly enough. You write well, Catherine Newman, but this book is so borrrr-ing.

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