Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships

As polyamory continues to make its way into the mainstream, more and more people are exploring consensual nonmonogamy in the hope of experiencing more love, connection, sex, freedom and support. While for many, the move expands personal horizons, for others, the transition can be challenging, leaving them blindsided and overwhelmed. Beyond the initial transition to nonmonogamy, many struggle with the root issues beneath the symptoms of broken agreements, communication challenges, increased fighting and persistent jealousy.


Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern and restorative justice facilitator David Cooley share the insights they have gained through thousands of hours working with clients in consensually nonmonogamous relationships. Using a grounded theory approach, they explore the underlying challenges that nonmonogamous individuals and partners can experience after their first steps, offering practical strategies for transforming them into opportunities for new levels of clarity and intimacy.


Polywise provides both the conceptual framework to better understand the shift from monogamy to nonmonogamy and the tools to navigate the next steps.


This audiobook includes a supplemental pdf.

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336 pages

Average rating: 8.5

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SraGonzalez
Mar 10, 2025
10/10 stars
I read Polysecure last year. It was a wonderful book about attachment, trauma, and consensual relationships. The target demographic is nonmonogamous people but I felt the book could apply to monogamous individuals as well. So I was clearly excited when this book came out. I’ve been on the waitlist for months. I read it as an audiobook. It was read by the authors. She speaks slower so I had it at 1.50-1.75. When David spoke I had to dial it back because he is a faster talker. They referenced a PDF with some of the sections but having a library audio copy it didn’t accompany the loan. This one was more nonmonogamous forward about going from monogamous to CNM but the information they shared can help anyone in any type of relationship. I especially like the activities and suggestions they share which they use in their private practices. They are both therapist. I do want to add both of these books to my shelf. If you have an open mind and like “self help” genre I highly recommend it.

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