Not That Bad: Dispatches from Rape Culture

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New York Times Bestseller

Edited and with an introduction by Roxane Gay, the New York Times bestselling and deeply beloved author of Bad Feminist and Hunger, this anthology of first-person essays from writers including Gabrielle Union, Brandon Taylor, and Lyz Lenz tackles rape, assault, and harassment head-on.

In this valuable and revealing anthology, cultural critic and bestselling author Roxane Gay collects original and previously published pieces that address what it means to live in a world where women have to measure the harassment, violence, and aggression they face, and where they are "routinely second-guessed, blown off, discredited, denigrated, besmirched, belittled, patronized, mocked, shamed, gaslit, insulted, bullied" for speaking out. Contributions include essays from established and up-and-coming writers, performers, and critics, including actors Ally Sheedy and Gabrielle Union and writers Amy Jo Burns, Booker Prize-nominated Brandon Taylor, and Lyz Lenz.

Covering a wide range of topics and experiences, from an exploration of the rape epidemic embedded in the refugee crisis to first-person accounts of child molestation, this collection is often deeply personal and is always unflinchingly honest. Like Rebecca Solnit's Men Explain Things to Me, Not That Bad will resonate with every reader, saying "something in totality that we cannot say alone."

Searing and heartbreakingly candid, this provocative collection both reflects the world we live in and offers a call to arms insisting that "not that bad" must no longer be good enough.

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368 pages

Average rating: 8.56

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Anonymous
Mar 23, 2024
8/10 stars
I enjoyed this book in a way that I'm glad I read it and I can easily give it 4 stars, but I don't think it's the kind of book that I want to pick up and read again. I wasn't sure if that meant that it should be a 4-star book, mostly because if I really liked it, I should be happy to reread it in the future. But it was too poignant and interesting to be anything less than 4 stars.

This book was primarily a series of essays about rape culture, som...read more
E Clou
May 10, 2023
8/10 stars
This essay collection was interesting and I think it’s important for people to read it and discuss it. Probably especially with your children. That said, it left me feeling a little unmoored. The rules are changing quickly (and will probably change more going forward). We’re not all clear on the current rules, even those of us who care deeply about human autonomy. Some of these essays really needed more outside context for some of us to fully und...read more

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