Maybe You Should Talk To Someone: A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed

INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER!


“Rarely have I read a book that challenged me to see myself in an entirely new light, and was at the same time laugh-out-loud funny and utterly absorbing.”—Katie Couric


“This is a daring, delightful, and transformative book.”—Arianna Huffington, Founder, Huffington Post and Founder & CEO, Thrive Global


“Wise, warm, smart, and funny. You must read this book.”—Susan Cain, New York Times best-selling author of Quiet


From a New York Times best-selling author, psychotherapist, and national advice columnist, a hilarious, thought-provoking, and surprising new book that takes us behind the scenes of a therapist’s world—where her patients are looking for answers (and so is she).


One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose of­fice she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.


As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients’ lives — a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can’t stop hooking up with the wrong guys — she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.


With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.


Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is rev­olutionary in its candor, offering a deeply per­sonal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly reveal­ing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.

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Published Apr 2, 2019

432 pages

Average rating: 8.09

832 RATINGS

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Community Reviews

Shananigans
Mar 02, 2023
10/10 stars
Hand's down one of the best nonfiction/memoir books I have ever read. Lori is a superb writer as evidenced by her ability to take a tough topic and make it such an enjoyable read. Funny, savvy, vulnerable, insightful, and heavy at times, this memoir of a therapist and all its life lessons packed into 400-plus pages resonated with me in so many ways. I loved going through her patients' emotional journeys, finding out more about their lives, and crying along with them for all the tragedies and breakthroughs. If you enjoy exploring what makes us human and personal growth, this is a must read.
yutsi
May 12, 2025
8/10 stars
4.5. Touching and at times hilarious.
Anonymous
May 08, 2025
8/10 stars
Amazing book

It was slow initially. But have to read it that way because it capture emotions as well as life. Glad I read this book.
Michalmarie123
Apr 12, 2025
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Lisa P
Jan 10, 2025
10/10 stars
Not sure why this book took me so long to read, when I thoroughly enjoyed it. I was torn between 4 or 5 stars and ultimately decided on 5 - for the grace, humor, insight, and compassion that exudes from this book. Explores therapies and psychological frameworks without feeling like a textbook; the stories are realistic, sad, funny and interesting.

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