Leave Your Mess at Home: A Novel

By Tolani Akinola

"Warm, smart, hilarious, delicious, riveting."—Curtis Sittenfeld, New York Times bestselling author of Romantic Comedy “Powerful… There are multiple messes in Leave Your Mess At Home; I loved reading about every one of them.”—Rachel Khong, New York Times bestselling author of Real Americans **A Best Book of April: People, The Millions, Atlantic Journal-Constitution, The Root, Muses of Media **A Most Anticipated Book of 2026: Electric Lit, SheReads, HelloBeautiful, ScaryMommy The Longe siblings are really botching their parents' American Dream. Sola Longe, eldest daughter, estranged from the family, is secretly back home in Chicago for the first time in a decade. She’s a newly single and recently disgraced influencer trying to quietly put her life back together again. The other three Longe siblings aren't doing much better. Anjola is in love with her best friend, who just got engaged to someone else; Karen, a college junior and the baby of the family, is grappling with her sexuality and self-image; and Ola, the golden child with a baby of his own on the way, is questioning his marriage and how to raise a Black son in America. Sola’s unexpected return sets them on a crash course towards each other, and when the four siblings find themselves together again at their Nigerian immigrant parents' Thanksgiving table, a decade’s worth of secrets and a lifetime of resentments explode to the fore. In the wreckage of their fateful reunion, each Longe is forced to reckon with the past, take stock of what really matters, and find a way back to each other. Big-hearted, hilarious, and wise, Leave Your Mess At Home is a poignant exploration of forgiveness, unconditional love, and becoming who you want to be, asking the question: what do we owe to our families, and what do we owe to ourselves?

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Published Apr 14, 2026

Average rating: 7.96

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ericaj423
10/10 stars
This is an honest, messy, emotional, and hopeful story about familial relationships. The journeys of the Longe siblings are written with nuance and I found myself feeling anger, empathy, frustration, sadness, and hope throughout the book. What makes it stand out is how it examines the way nurturing, environment, and social norms shape identity and offers a look into the specific experiences of immigrant children while still being universally relatable in its exploration of belonging, family dynamics, and the human struggle of figuring out who you are and what you want. The characters are flawed in ways that feel real. I loved this book.
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Dawn-NE
9/10 stars
Family is everything!

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