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Crying in H Mart: A Memoir

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

From the indie rock sensation known as Japanese Breakfast, an unforgettable memoir about family, food, grief, love, and growing up Korean American—“in losing her mother and cooking to bring her back to life, Zauner became herself” (NPR).

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Published Mar 28, 2023

239 pages

Average rating: 7.63

2,145 RATINGS

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jess.withbooks
Jun 05, 2025
10/10 stars
“I remember these things clearly because that was how my mother loved you, not through white lies and constant verbal affirmation, but in subtle observations of what brought you joy, pocketed away to make you feel comforted and cared for without even realizing it.”
Quiglet
Mar 26, 2025
10/10 stars
Really stroke a chord within me - a heartwarming memoir for mother and daughter relationships.
Khris Sellin
Jul 05, 2024
10/10 stars
What a beautiful tribute to her "Lovely" mother.

I connected with this at first because of my own complicated relationship with my mother. Zauner had struggles with both of her parents, for different reasons. She was finally feeling like she was coming back to achieving a closer relationship with her mother, when she finds out her mom has been diagnosed with cancer. She lives in the East Coast and her parents are in Eugene, Oregon, so she drops everything to head back home across the country. In between recounting the horrors of watching her mother suffer through this terrible illness, Zauner threads in memories of growing up with her Korean mother and American father, the good and the bad. She had tried to reconnect with her mother through food, and her writing becomes almost lyrical, and you can almost taste these meals she's lovingly recreated and how it's given her a better appreciation of her mother and her heritage.

I couldn't help but feel for her when, after her mother passes, she has dreams of her mother being alive and in the dream being so happy to see her, that she's not dead after all, she was just away somewhere, or couldn't contact her for some reason -- only to wake up to reality. Well, 30 years after my brother passed away all too young from lung cancer, I still have those dreams. Not as frequently as I used to, but they still come. I still am just as happy to see him, and still devastated to wake up to the knowledge that he's still gone.

Extra bonus: The author is a musician, in a band Japanese Breakfast, and her references to music were also fun to read. Now I have to go look up some of this music she wrote about!
CazzaT
Sep 05, 2021
7/10 stars
Read this bc my book club wanted to read it. It was a quick read and although the situation/relationship the author had with her mom was different than mine, I still related to much of the care taking and grief described. At one point it was too painful so I put it down but returned to it a few days later. Not sure how you’re feeling about your mom’s situation right now, but this book might be helpful as well as upsetting.
Lauren Greely
Jul 01, 2025
8/10 stars
3.5⭐️

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