Come As You Are: Revised and Updated: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life

A revised and updated edition of Emily Nagoski's game-changing New York Times bestseller Come As You Are, featuring new information and research on mindfulness, desire, and pleasure that will radically transform your sex life.

For much of the 20th and 21st centuries, women's sexuality was an uncharted territory in science, studied far less frequently--and far less seriously--than its male counterpart.

That is, until Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are, which used groundbreaking science and research to prove that the most important factor in creating and sustaining a sex life filled with confidence and joy is not what the parts are or how they're organized but how you feel about them. In the years since the book's initial publication, countless women have learned through Nagoski's accessible and informative guide that things like stress, mood, trust, and body image are not peripheral factors in a woman's sexual wellbeing; they are central to it--and that even if you don't always feel like it, you are already sexually whole by just being yourself. This revised and updated edition continues that mission with new information and advanced research, demystifying and decoding the science of sex so that everyone can create a better sex life and discover more pleasure than you ever thought possible.

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400 pages

Average rating: 7.55

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Jesscbug
May 23, 2024
9/10 stars
This will forever change the way I view women's sexuality
Fiesty Fire Fox
Nov 09, 2023
10/10 stars
Sex positive self awareness helps to shed purity culture shaming.
JonnaJack
Apr 27, 2023
6/10 stars
Although I don’t agree with everything in the book, I can appreciate the desire to validate women and share knowledge and insight.
TheBookRaven
Mar 20, 2023
10/10 stars
This book is a must read if you own a vulva or if you are intimate with a person that has a vulva. The author did a great job of explaining the science of pleasure and orgasm in a way that was very accessible. If you have every asked yourself, "Why is my body like this?", do yourself a favor and read this book.

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