Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life

Join the millions who have learned how to take control of their lives by setting healthy boundaries with their spouses, children, friends, parents, co-workers, and even themselves--in order to live life to the fullest.

  • Do you feel like your life has spiraled out of control?
  • Have you focused so much on being loving and unselfish that you've forgotten your own limits?
  • Do you find yourself taking responsibility for other people's feelings and problems?

In Boundaries, Drs. Henry Cloud and John Townsend share the lessons they've learned in their years of practicing psychology and studying the patterns and practices that support clear biblical boundaries. You'll learn the ins and outs of setting the boundaries that will transform your daily life.

This updated and expanded edition of Boundaries, answers the most common questions on the science behind establishing boundaries:

  • Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
  • What are legitimate boundaries?
  • How do I effectively manage my digital life so that it doesn't control me?
  • What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
  • How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
  • Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?

Discover the countless ways that Boundaries can change your life for the better today!

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Published Oct 3, 2017

352 pages

Average rating: 8.75

73 RATINGS

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wendyhale
Nov 01, 2025
10/10 stars
I think we should read this book once every year. Very timely for me. Great practical tips for relationships for family dynamics and personal growth.
GarlicBreadandBook_Lover
Aug 27, 2025
10/10 stars
Great tool to implement boundaries and filter out those who don't respect your needs.
gracieanngates
Jun 30, 2025
10/10 stars
Such a good book, I learned so much I never knew. Boundaries are so so important and I can’t wait to work on them better so I can be less resentful and more happy.
Gina Tavares
May 23, 2024
8/10 stars
Honestly between this book and my therapist... it showed me how much I put other people's needs before mine. Everyone in my life comes before me every single time. Husband, kids and now even our grandchildren. I never just take time for me, this book helped to show me. I am useless to my family if I am run down.... and its okay to put me first sometimes. I have never said no, that is something big I need to work on. This book was a big eye opener for me and I enjoyed it very much.
Road_Runner
Aug 29, 2023
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