American Afterlives: Reinventing Death in the Twenty-First Century

By Shannon Lee Dawdy

A mesmerizing trip across America to investigate the changing face of death in contemporary life

Death in the United States is undergoing a quiet revolution. You can have your body frozen, dissected, composted, dissolved, or tanned. Your family can incorporate your remains into jewelry, shotgun shells, paperweights, and artwork. Cremations have more than doubled, and DIY home funerals and green burials are on the rise. American Afterlives is Shannon Lee Dawdy's lyrical and compassionate account of changing death practices in America as people face their own mortality and search for a different kind of afterlife.

As an anthropologist and archaeologist, Dawdy knows that how a society treats its dead yields powerful clues about its beliefs and values. As someone who has experienced loss herself, she knows there is no way to tell this story without also reexamining her own views about death and dying. In this meditative and gently humorous book, Dawdy embarks on a transformative journey across the United States, talking to funeral directors, death-care entrepreneurs, designers, cemetery owners, death doulas, and ordinary people from all walks of life. What she discovers is that, by reinventing death, Americans are reworking their ideas about personhood, ritual, and connection across generations. She also confronts the seeming contradiction that American death is becoming at the same time more materialistic and more spiritual.

Written in conjunction with a documentary film project, American Afterlives features images by cinematographer Daniel Zox that provide their own testament to our rapidly changing attitudes toward death and the afterlife.

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Published Oct 19, 2021

272 pages

Average rating: 7.33

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Red-Haired Ash Reads
May 31, 2026
7/10 stars
Death in the United States is rapidly changing. You can be frozen, dissected, composted, dissolved, tanned, and of course, cremated. Now there are also hundreds of options to do with your loved ones ashes to memorialize them, like jewelry, art, and even shotgun shells. Dawdy takes us through the many options now available in America and how we are coping with our own mortality. This was an interesting look at how the death industry is changing as more options for your body become available. This discusses things like the rise in cremation, green burial, alkaline hydrolysis (aquamation), funeral pyres and extreme embalming. I think Dawdy did a great job at presenting all these different options, even if it did feel like they were jumping around a little. But while it was great learning about all these new options, it wasn’t new information for me because I have read other books that discuss these, and I follow pages like The Order of the Good Death that keep you updated on all the newest death options. I really enjoyed Dawdy’s dive into all the different options that are now available to memorialize someone, whether it be with their ashes or not. I had heard about a lot of these options, but quite a few of them were new to me and It was extremely fascinating. My one complaint though, was her discussion around the decline in lengthy funeral services being because while Dawdy is right that we don’t usually get a lot of time off for funerals, she doesn’t discuss the exorbitant cost of funeral services, which I think is the main reason why services have gotten so short. It’s hard enough to afford the burial services, let alone a lengthy funeral/ wake service. Overall, I think this was a great look at the modern death industry and how it has evolved over the past 30 years. If you are curious about what options are out there, I highly recommend reading this and also following The Order of the Good Death, because they are pushing for new death options in all states.

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