All the Single Ladies: Unmarried Women and the Rise of an Independent Nation

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The New York Times bestselling investigation into the sexual, economic, and emotional lives of women is "an informative and thought-provoking book for anyone--not just the single ladies--who want to gain a greater understanding of this pivotal moment in the history of the United States" (The New York Times Book Review).

In 2009, award-winning journalist Rebecca Traister started All the Single Ladies about the twenty-first century phenomenon of the American single woman. It was the year the proportion of American women who were married dropped below fifty percent; and the median age of first marriages, which had remained between twenty and twenty-two years old for nearly a century (1890-1980), had risen dramatically to twenty-seven.

But over the course of her vast research and more than a hundred interviews with academics and social scientists and prominent single women, Traister discovered a startling truth: the phenomenon of the single woman in America is not a new one. And historically, when women were given options beyond early heterosexual marriage, the results were massive social change--temperance, abolition, secondary education, and more. Today, only twenty percent of Americans are married by age twenty-nine, compared to nearly sixty percent in 1960.

"An informative and thought-provoking book for anyone--not just single ladies" (The New York Times Book Review), All the Single Ladies is a remarkable portrait of contemporary American life and how we got here, through the lens of the unmarried American woman. Covering class, race, sexual orientation, and filled with vivid anecdotes from fascinating contemporary and historical figures, "we're better off reading Rebecca Traister on women, politics, and America than pretty much anyone else" (The Boston Globe).

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Anonymous
Mar 23, 2024
8/10 stars
Although it took me a bit to get into it, once I was, this book was awesome! I absolutely learned a lot about the history of women and single women, and I felt like the writing was easy and accessible. I loved getting to hear about all the different stories from different women across the US and why they made the choices they did (or didn't) make. The author also covers a ton of different aspects of being a woman and womanhood, and she tried to cover all different women, including women of color, poor women, and other groups that are not always represented, so that was pretty great. As a millennial who is not planning on marrying or having kids any time soon, this book was a look at the history leading up to many women like myself making the same choices.

This book isn't particularly deep or groundbreaking, but it was definitely interesting, and as I mentioned, I really enjoyed the historical aspects of it. I'm not quite sure what I was expecting when I picked up this book on my friends' recommendations, but I'm glad I read it, even if it took me a bit and I wasn't sure if I wanted to finish it earlier on, so I took a break in the middle.
E Clou
May 10, 2023
8/10 stars
Interesting book. It felt a little all over the place. I liked the part about how regulating single women is a way of regulating women generally. Would have been good to read even more about the political power of single women, and the problem of the political affiliations of married women. Also didn't focus much on why there are single women who don't want to be single. There was a general suggestion that the issue was sociological, political, and sometimes personal, but left me with a big question mark in that area.

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